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P\u0159ekon\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed kriz\u00ed, kdy si oba \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te, jestli m\u00e1 v\u016fbec smysl sna\u017eit se je\u0161t\u011b pokra\u010dovat, nebo d\u00edky spole\u010dn\u00fdm p\u011bkn\u00fdm […]","datePublished":"2025-02-26","dateModified":"2023-05-01","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.natusen.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"natusen.cz\n","url":"https:\/\/www.natusen.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0004469d2196026c4aaacbb56e80b8fe204b91e98e8d884732a12310e081011a?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0004469d2196026c4aaacbb56e80b8fe204b91e98e8d884732a12310e081011a?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"natusen.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.natusen.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a312378_w2132_t1523346843.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.natusen.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a312378_w2132_t1523346843.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.natusen.cz\/opravdu-se-muzeme-na-ne-spolehnout\/","about":["Mu\u017ei"],"wordCount":685,"articleBody":"Dlouholet\u00e9 vztahy jsou v\u017edy obdivuhodn\u00e9. Je hezk\u00e9, kdy\u017e n\u011bkdo m\u016f\u017ee \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee je s partnerem d\u00e9le ne\u017e dvacet let. Nechci se vytahovat, ale j\u00e1 pat\u0159\u00edm mezi n\u011b. Ale tak\u00e9 v\u00edm, \u017ee cesta k t\u011bmto let\u016fm nen\u00ed r\u016f\u017eov\u00e1. P\u0159ekon\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed kriz\u00ed, kdy si oba \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te, jestli m\u00e1 v\u016fbec smysl sna\u017eit se je\u0161t\u011b pokra\u010dovat, nebo d\u00edky spole\u010dn\u00fdm p\u011bkn\u00fdm vzpom\u00ednk\u00e1m se d\u00e1l up\u00ednat k l\u00e1sce toho druh\u00e9ho.  Man\u017eelstv\u00ed, nebo chcete-li partnerstv\u00ed, je boj. Ka\u017ed\u00fd je osobnost, ka\u017ed\u00fd vyrostl v jin\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed a mus\u00ed b\u00fdt v\u016fle na obou stran\u00e1ch, skloubit rozd\u00edlnou v\u00fdchovu do jednoho svazku. Hodn\u011b tolerance, je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edc kompromis\u016f, ale kdy\u017e se chce, vyjde to. Osobn\u011b nev\u00edm, jestli m\u00e1m obdivovat \u017eeny, kter\u00e9 trp\u00ed sv\u00fdm mu\u017e\u016f odchody do restaura\u010dn\u00edch za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed a po jejich p\u0159\u00edchodu je ml\u010dky ulo\u017e\u00ed a v\u00fd\u010ditky si nechaj\u00ed a\u017e na jeho vyst\u0159\u00edzliv\u011bn\u00ed. Je v tom l\u00e1ska, kterou mu\u017e nevid\u00ed, nebo jen \u017eenin strach, \u017ee pokud ho opust\u00ed, u\u017e ji nikdo jin\u00fd cht\u00edt nebude? Spole\u010dn\u00e9 d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 vid\u00ed, jak se otec pot\u00e1c\u00ed a sna\u017e\u00ed se n\u011bco nesrozumiteln\u011b sd\u011blit? Naopak, kv\u016fli nim bych sbalila kufry. Nebo v n\u011bm vid\u00ed jinak ob\u011btav\u00e9ho man\u017eela a otce, kter\u00fd si zkr\u00e1tka ob\u010das vyhod\u00ed z kop\u00fdtka a ona bere jako povinnost to vydr\u017eet? Nev\u00edm. Stejn\u011b je to v man\u017eelstv\u00ed, kde mu\u017e neust\u00e1le p\u0159ed ostatn\u00edmi d\u00e1v\u00e1 najevo, jak s n\u00ed nal\u00edtl. \u017dena se m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159etrhnout, aby dom\u00e1cnost byla i bez jeho pomoci v po\u0159\u00e1dku, d\u011bti spr\u00e1vn\u011b vychovan\u00e9, aby se mu\u017e vracel dom\u016f, kde na stole von\u00ed \u010derstv\u011b upe\u010den\u00e1 buchta, kterou m\u00e1 r\u00e1d. Sna\u017e\u00ed se, aby ji vid\u011bl pokud mo\u017eno jen upravenou, nest\u011b\u017euje si na bolesti, proto\u017ee nen\u00ed chlap, kter\u00fd hned na v\u0161echno \u201eum\u00edr\u00e1\u201c, a p\u0159esto j\u00ed p\u0159i oslav\u011b, kde se sejdou jeho p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00ed, do o\u010d\u00ed \u0159ekne, \u017ee stoj\u00ed za \u2026 Pak ale jdou dom\u016f a on je znovu ten hodn\u00fd a pozorn\u00fd mu\u017e, kter\u00fd sice m\u00e1 sv\u00e9 mouchy, ale nikdy by nic takov\u00e9ho v soukrom\u00ed nevyslovil. V t\u011bchto svazc\u00edch je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 b\u00fdt, ale \u010dlov\u011bka p\u0159ekvap\u00ed, kdy\u017e od mu\u017ee, co se vrac\u00edv\u00e1 dom\u016f v alkoholov\u00e9m opojen\u00ed, sly\u0161\u00ed, jak mluv\u00ed o sv\u00e9 \u017een\u011b hezky. Naopak tam, kde si chlap \u017eije jako v poh\u00e1dce, ve\u0159ejn\u011b mluv\u00ed o n\u00ed o\u0161kliv\u011b. Nerozum\u00edm tomu.  Ka\u017ed\u00e1 rodina m\u00e1 n\u011bjak\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. Ale je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby na\u0161i partne\u0159i byli spolehliv\u00ed, dok\u00e1zali b\u00fdt s n\u00e1mi, kdy\u017e je n\u00e1m nejen fyzicky zle, aby n\u00e1s popadli do n\u00e1ru\u010de a my c\u00edtily, \u017ee se o n\u00e1s postaraj\u00ed i ve chv\u00edl\u00edch, kdy n\u00e1m to rozhodn\u011b neslu\u0161\u00ed, zaj\u00edmali se o na\u0161e trable a my je za to odm\u011bn\u00edme v\u0161\u00edm t\u00edm, co sami pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed. Na\u0161i partne\u0159i by m\u011bli b\u00fdt na na\u0161\u00ed stran\u011b a neb\u00e1t se, \u017ee se jim okol\u00ed bude sm\u00e1t. Schov\u00e1vat si city dom\u016f za zav\u0159en\u00e9 dve\u0159e nen\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b to prav\u00e9. A\u0165 se projevuj\u00ed i jinde. Je hezk\u00e9, kdy\u017e se mu\u017e na ve\u0159ejnosti ke sv\u00e9 \u017een\u011b chov\u00e1 pozorn\u011b a nesna\u017e\u00ed se b\u00fdt \u201eprav\u00fd chlap\u201c t\u00edm, \u017ee ji nest\u00e1le p\u0159ed lidmi komanduje a vyt\u00fdk\u00e1 j\u00ed, \u017ee t\u0159eba dala na p\u00e1s u pokladny v\u011bci v jin\u00e9m po\u0159ad\u00ed, ne\u017e jak by je dal on. Zkusme jim \u0159\u00edct do o\u010d\u00ed, jak moc n\u00e1s bol\u00ed jejich chov\u00e1n\u00ed, po\u017e\u00e1dejme je, a\u0165 se sna\u017e\u00ed v sob\u011b touhu po nad\u0159azenosti potla\u010dit a vysv\u011btleme jim, \u017ee my je budeme v\u00edc milovat, kdy\u017e n\u00e1m p\u0159estanou jakkoli ubli\u017eovat.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         4.6\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"OPRAVDU SE M\u016e\u017dEME NA N\u011a SPOLEHNOUT?","item":"https:\/\/www.natusen.cz\/opravdu-se-muzeme-na-ne-spolehnout\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]